This is very good news. Think about it. When we renounce judging, life becomes so much easier and lighter. Jesus says,
"My yoke is easy and my burden is light."
Matthew 11:30
We are not happy when we are judging. Judging is heavy, tiresome, and painful. It is pure drudgery. The abundant life Jesus promises becomes more abundant in our experience when we renounce our judgments.
We cannot, however, stop others from judging us. They will. But we do not have to be significantly affected by their judgments. Paul knew this. This is how he responded to his critics in Corinth.
"I care very little if I am judged by you or any human court; indeed, I do not even judge myself."
1 Corinthians 4:5
In the past, I have been judged negatively for what some call my "over emphasis on God's grace." One of my critics is a very senior Christian theologian. Most of you have his books in your library. He wrote in a magazine article, "Dr. Blue is an able expositor but his over emphasis on grace is dangerous to your spiritual health." Paraphrasing Paul, in 1 Corithians 4:5, I responded with,
I have a low opinion of your opinion of me.
I have a low opinion of my opinion of me.
God alone will assess you and me in the end.
If we are secure in our identity as the much loved children of the non judgmental Father, we can learn from our critics, yet not be disheartened by them.
Unfortunately for my team, Tom Brady is one of the best quarterbacks to ever play the game of football. If someone told him he sucked as a quarterback, it would be water off a duck's back. He is secure in his football identity and for good reason. However, if someone told a 14 year old Q.B. that he sucked, that judgment could be devestating. The point is obvious. When we are secure in our identity, the criticism and judgment of others is of little effect.
Our identity is, in fact, secure.
We are OK because Jesus made us OK.
We cannot be more secure.
We can only awaken to that truth and speak and act as if it is true.